I have been in the BDSM scene for about 15 years now. I started out as a submissive only when I was 18.
I had, had fantasies about it since I was young and couldn't wait to explore them. After several years of just subbing, I felt compelled to explore my dominant, more sadistic side. Since I had lots of experience as a sub I was able to understand my submissive better. I found was also able to better judge the amount of pain I was giving because I had felt it as well. I am have been working as a professional dominant independently for about 10 years total. I am safe and sane. I do not smoke, drink or do drugs.

I am a lifestyle dominatrix. However, I am not a man-hater or female supremacist. I don't consider myself a domme in a traditional sense. I am more a very knowledgeable, safe, sane sadist & a tease.

In our session I view you as an equal, but I am most certainly in charge. We exchange power for the pleasure of it, not because that's the way things should be. Overall, I am more generally more casual in my sessions, while still maintaining control. I am not much into verbal humiliation or degradation. However, I am very flexible. I can be very strict if that is what you are seeking. Or, if your more a of masochist, than a submissive, that's fine with me. Just let me know.

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Before we go any further, and find we might have incompatible needs,
I do have some strict limits. Yes, Dommes have limits too!!!!
They are listed below followed by my specialties and other favorites types of play.

I DO NOT DO ANY OF THE FOLLOWING IN MY PROFESSIONAL SESSIONS

Toilet sex (urine / scat)
Smothering / Breath Control
Face Sitting
Face Slapping
Strap on Dildo
Smoking in any way
Blood Play (Play Piercing or Cutting)
Trampling
Fire Play
Spitting

Complex Bondage (simple leather restraints only)
Body Worship (sexual contact), some mild foot worship is fine

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MY SPECIALTIES

Electric Play, Impact Play, Caning and CBT

As I said, I definitely sadistic streak and love to inflict pain. I so fun to watch a helpless man screaming and twisting in agony while I sit and laugh. I enjoy using with crops, floggers and paddles. My favorite corporal toy however, is the cane. Though I realize not everyone can have them, I love to leave marks and know that every time you sit down the next day you are thinking of me. I can be very sensual at just the right moment. I love CBT, nipple torture and using hot wax as well. This does not mean you have to be a pain slut for both of us to enjoy ourselves. Even if you have a low tolerance for pain, it suits me fine as long as you are open to new things and willing to push your limits a bit. I can be flexible.

One of my specialties is electrical play. Most people have the preconception that is extreme and always very painful. Many view it as unsafe, which it is not, unless the person who is doing it doesn't know what they are doing. I do. Of course, it can be painful. If you do want pain it has advantage that it can be done without leaving a single mark, if you can't have them. However, it does not have to be painful. I even have toys that many men describe as making you feel like you are getting an awesome blow job. It can very sensual and stimulating. I'd say about 95% of sub who have never tried electric play end up liking or even loving it. I've even had hard-core flogging / canning junkies who never even dreamed they trying it end up finding it to be a unique and pleasurable experience.

Many ask what a typical electric play session involves. It does depend on the person, but I can describe a few of my favorite things to do. I love to have my sub restrained then pull the cock and balls through my Folsom CBT board. Once in place, the cock & balls are smashed down and electricity is applied. Programs used may include orgasm, stroke or bee stings. Another fun scene involves electrifying knives. The sensation is one of being cut, but without the blood or scaring. I have another device that looks similar to a cattle prod, yet is not and is very safe. The best part is it delivers a quick sharp shock that can be done on any part of the body (yes, even upper body) and yet has no cords. Another fun time is too set my electric box to respond to sound. I simply stomp my feet, clap my hands or yell loudly and you get a nice jolt. There are plenty more, but I don't want to give all my ideas away.

To view a list of toys both electrical and standard view the Equipment & Toys page. To learn more about them and how they are used see the Electric Play. I love combining CBT with electric play. For safety reasons, if you want to do electrical play that uses internal toys such as butt plugs or urethral devices you must bring your own. If you don't know what do buy, click here.

As I mentioned I also love to tease my subs. Imagine being tightly tied while I dance around you touching myself, perhaps even brushing against you. Helpless, you beg to be allowed even the slightest touch or a glance at the creamy white skin beneath my clothes. If your lucky, I may allow you a see my nipple piercing or even get a glimpse at my labia rings.

On occasion I enjoy foot worship. I also give enemas and do light dildo (or butt plug) training (must be clean - see rules). I do some simple bondage with leather restraints. I do not do rope bondage or any kind of complex bondage. Though I will do cross-dressing and some role-play my experience with these is limited.

If I haven't mentioned your particular brand of kink feel free to ask.