To avoid confusion,
This is a link on my Goddess
Angel (homepage) and Edge Dungeon website
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I am looking for a 24/7 live-in slave male or female, but may
accept a part-time slave, which I will hold to the same standards.
BELOW BEFORE RESPONDING
If you can not meet the requirements below, then do
not bother contacting me.
Please don't ask me to join as a friend (on fetlife, collarme or alt) if this
is your only interest.
While I am happy to answer a few questions (preferably via e-mail)
I am not going to spend hours emailing, IMing or talking on the phone with
You must live in the USA and be able to meet me in person.
Do do not bother to contact me if you needs include things I state I will
Do not lie to me about yourself or experiences, if start telling me different
stories we will quickly part.
I don't do free sessions, unless they only involve labor - No nudity, No play,
Service does NOT include sexual/physical contact, it means working in any
manner that pleases me.
If you want to play, then you will either need to do 15 hrs of quality work
first or pay for a session.
I am willing to do a session first, if you pay for it, then return the money
you have done 15 hrs of quality work without me standing over you.
Praise and play must be truly earned and will NOT be for every little thing
For now, my needs are more important than yours; you need to prove to me that
you are for real.
This does not mean that I am totally selfish, or that I don't enjoy playing.
While masochism is not required, I do enjoy being sadistic, especially at
my own play parties.
You will find that my mind is much more focused play on when my home is sparkling
Admittedly, at times, I may sound like a bitch, but in all honesty I'm not.
I am actually fairly laid back.
I have had to forced to draw a hard line in creation of these rules, as I
have had way many pretenders & time wasters.
I am 5'4,
185 Lbs. With long burgundy red hair and blue eyes. There are pictures both
on fetlife.com and my Goddess Angel website. Note, that many of these are
out of date as they were taken when I was about 150 lbs. I have gone from
a size 38C to a 44D. I usually wear an XL or sometimes a size 18. I do hope
to get my weight down, but one of the reasons I want a slave is to help assist
me with exercise. For instance, I am not strong enough to use the strength
training machine I bought on my own. Sometimes I need assistance with stretching/
yoga or help changing the springs on my pilates equipment so I don't have
While I am married, but my husband will not be involved in your life beyond
general contact such as helping him move things or work on projects. My husband
is straight, dominant, and into BDSM as well, but we usually do not play together.
I do have a submissive side, but I only share that with one man (not my husband)
whom I have been with exclusively for over 7 years. You may see me sub to
him sometimes during play parties. I will NEVER sub to you and even mentioning
my bottoming to you it will be grounds for dismissal. Also, there will Absolutely
NEVER be sex or body worship!
My primary BDSM interests include electric play, corporal punishment, wax
play, nipple torture and CBT. Though not my main interest, I may do some bondage
(leather restraints), enemas, as well as allow cross-dressing & foot worship
if you have your own female wardrobe. I am NOT into, verbal degradation
/ potty mouth, strap-on dildos, toilet sex, adult babies, breath play / smothering
/ face sitting, needle / blood play, face slapping, spitting, smoking, trampling,
complex bondage and extreme CBT. Again, I say that there will be no sex
or body worship, as I know I will still get subs that write me wanting this.
I may allow you to masturbate to orgasm occasionally. You will NOT be allowed
to masturbate without permission! My interests will NOT change. However,
please note that some of things I mention I do or don't do are different when
I am working with clients. From experience, I know that if we don't have the
same interests then this will not work out.
serve me mostly during the day when my husband is at work. During the weekends
when my husband is home you may need to assist him or serve me is some way.
Between the house & the building, there is about 6000 -7000 sq. feet to take
care of. I won't expect you to work more than 40 hrs per week for me, less
if you contribute income - see below. I'm not unreasonable and can adjust
how often things get done if it's too much to do everything weekly.
include basic cooking, dishes, laundry, housework, grocery shopping, pet cage
cleaning, doing office chores and driving me places. You will also serve my
personal needs such as doing manicures, pedicures, body wraps, spray tanning,
corset lacing and body art. If you don't have some of these skills before
meeting me, you will be required to learn them. You will also assist with
my exercise routine and art projects.
I know many
subs think 24/7 means they will be constantly played with or when not being
played with locked up. I don't know how many times I have heard a sub say
(this or something similar) - "I want to be locked in a small cage all
the time and feed bread & water." My response is NO! Think about this,
how does it serve me or make my life easier? Having you locked up doing nothing,
does nothing to serve me. I would never leave a sub/slave in a cage (especially
overnight - what if there is a fire?) without being close by, as anything
I will not
tolerate a sub who tries to do a bad job on purpose to be punished. When you
do a task I expect it to be done quickly and thoroughly the FIRST time. I
am not into "play" punishment. I will not tolerate a sub who purposely
does things wrong in order to be "punished" in way they find pleasant.
Having you fuck up jobs, so you have to redo them does nothing for me. I will
stand over you with a crop (or some other punishment tool) pointing out mistakes
or yelling at you. I am not the type of person to yell and it mostly likely
wouldn't do any good as most (not all) subs get turned on by it at some level.
I will not talk to you while you work, as the point is free up time for me
to do other things. Also, Everything must be done MY WAY, not the way you
want to do it or the way your last Mistress wanted. Chores are not done nude
and do not involve masturbation.
If I have
to tell you did a good job every time you do the dishes and you sulk if I
don't, it is just too much work for me. It's like me having to give a dog
a treat every time it performs the sit command for it's whole life. Dogs are
smart enough to learn that pleasing their master/mistress is a reward in itself.
The whole point of having you do the chores is so I can spend time doing other
things. I will give praise and you may earn play from doing a good job, but
I find having to do this constantly is annoying and draining. If you are working
for me and not living here it is up to you to keep in contact on a regular
basis or I will assume you are no longer interested in serving me. I refuse
to waste my time
chasing after you asking when you are available and hearing lame excuses.
not expect me to stand there with a crop/flogger and watch your every move
looking for errors. I will evaluate your work when you say it's complete and
you will redo anything not done well. Poor work will also be punished (this
means something you don't like) as well. If you do crappy work, you will not
be given the opportunity to be my 24/7 live in slave. Doing things like prancing
around naked or using every opportunity to masturbate is not serving me. Work
is not playtime and play is a reward.
want to hear the words "My last Mistress did......." In fact, without
permission they are like swear words to your mother's ears. I may just wash
your mouth out with soap. I am NOT YOUR LAST DOMME and expecting me to be
the same is an insult.
for not doing something is ignoring and/or not playing with you. Or I might
to one of the following:
Feeding you nutritious, but horrible tasting (Big Brother TV slop comes to
Having you clean the dungeon in very high heels (maybe with stones glued to
the soles) strapped to your feet.
Sleeping in a bathtub with just six inches of water in it for a night
Writing sentences like you did in school.
None of these
won't harm you, excite you or take up my precious time. I know many subs say
they dream things like this. You may think some of these ideas sound great.
However, from experience, I know fantasy is much more fun that the reality.
If you enjoy these punishments then I will find others that you hate.
I am sharing
these past experiences as a way to show you why I say some of the things I
do and what why the relationships failed. I know that I can sound very negative
a times, but I hope you will understand where I am coming from. Overall, I
think I have spent more time trying to these "subs" to get work
done, then they spent doing the work. I admit that I am not perfect and that
I have sometimes let things go that I should not have. I have often not put
my foot down and been too nice. Many times I have found it easier and feel
more comfortable pointing out mistakes through writing, rather than in person.
This is especially true since none of following men (calling them subs would
be an insult to the true thing) ever lived with me and worked in shorts bursts
of time. I will hope that I have grown from these experiences, even though
they were bad. I have learned what does not work and to tolerate less.
had been working for me for a few months (just a couple times a week) left
to go get something in the middle of a project (caused me hours of extra work
myself) and didn't come back. Concerned, I tried to contact him the next day,
as I was worried about him. He told me he was sick of working and because
I didn't greet or hug him when he came in the door! Note: I don't do hugs
or kisses! At the end of our relationship he also had the nerve to call
me selfish. This, coming from a guy (calling him a sub of any kind would be
an insult to real subs) who pledged devotion in a long daily form letter and
had bugged me constantly to be a full-time slave, let him live in my basement
(at my old home) which was barely heated and be fed bread & water.
He was also
one who though that everything should be done to his last Mistress's standards
as he whined when I said the dishes were not cleaned properly saying his last
Domme though he got the dishes clean enough. She apparently didn't mind if
there was still food on the dishes when they were finished. As someone on
a forum recently posted: "My LAST Mistress liked me to _____." Goody for you,
then why are you not still with her? It's like someone who gets a job with
your company and then spends the next five years saying, "At my OLD company
we did it this way..." And how did that work out for you? Oh, wait, you left,
I have my answer."
would also make comments about spanking me which I repeatedly told him were
inappropriate. I am to the point now where any mention of something like that
and your dismissed permanently. That is a very separate part of my life. You
may occasionally see me sub in public or help my master by handing him things
or bringing him something to drink when he is working with me. This is very
different from talking about spanking me.
My very latest
one was "forced" to work naked and was to keep hard all the time. Obviously,
if I wanted my house clean anytime this century; this was going to have to
stop. I'm still in awe that the well know "alpha" Mistress taught
him to masturbate without asking permission and on a constant basis. He wanted
to lick the crumbs off the floor, instead with a mop. That's what HE wanted,
Silly me, I wanted my floor actually clean and done sometime this century.
He could not except that I didn't want him naked while he did it either.
about 6 hours for me, too busy to come more than once every two weeks for
an few hours, he used me as a reference (without asking) to work part-time
for someone else. Then, after a long business trip, he then showed up unannounced
at my door wanting to clean for a few hours and sulked when I told him no.
REQUIREMENTS & LIVING ARRANGEMENTS
looks are unimportant to me as long as you are clean and neat about your appearance.
Exercise may be required once you live with me and your diet may also be modified.
You must be disease and drug free. You will not drink alcohol in my presence,
as I am not a fan of it. If you smoke, you must do it outside. It is a nasty
habit that will expect you to break over time.
I have a double home. There are no tenants in the upstairs, though it is a
full apartment. I am Neo-Pagan and use the space mediation/worship/magick
live in a large commercial building about 12 ft. behind my home. It is about
3500 sq. ft. and used to be a tool & die shop. The building is not a shack/barn/outbuilding,
it has all the amenities a home would have. Your main living area / bedroom
would be 13 x 20 ft room. There is a small bathroom with shower and a full-size
refrigerator / microwave in the 500 sq. ft. adjacent lounge. The dungeon area
has a nice wood shop in back that makes it easy to work on equipment and move
it into the dungeon. There is also my 500+ sq. ft. art studio and a large
storage room too.
While I will
pay for heat/water as well as give you $100 to spend on food a month, I don't
have the money to offer anymore. I can't afford to buy a stove/oven. Nor do
I have the funds for fancy cages / bondage devices and a video system that
would be needed if you would be left in bondage. Honestly, though we have
space, the economy has taken it's toll and we are barley scraping by. We don't
(and most likely) will never make a profit or break even on the dungeon, no
matter what we do. Our dungeon is a labor of love and a gift to the BDSM community.
It was created so I would have a place to play where I could do what I wanted
and so others in the could do the same. If you would like to have additional
income, you may be allowed to work part time but only evenings, 5:30 PM or
later and perhaps some weekends. Working from home is also an option. As long
as your work gets done and you are available when I need you, this doesn't
& lounge area are rented to both BDSM & non BDSM groups, couples and
Professional Mistresses throughout the week. When this space is in use, you
will not have access to it, but will still have your room to stay in. You
can see pictures and find out much more information about the dungeon at:
ME - QUESTIONS & WRITING
If you have
read ALL of the above and still want to continue to process of trying to be
my slave you will need to answer the following questions. I expect you will
write like an adult using proper spelling and grammar with no abbreviations
like 4 & u. Include a clothed picture with for face. It is okay to use
a form letter as long as all the questions are answered and form letter parts
This all must be via e-mail. Yes, the phone is easier, but as MsConstace (see
below) said, I don't want to make it easy.
If you can't manage the simple task of writing back to me about these things,
then how do expect to handle to much harder task of serving me on a daily
basis? After all, I have taken the time (at least 20 hrs) to write about myself
and experiences here.
I need your age, occupation, marital/relationship status and location.
It is important for me to know what you expect out of this relationship?
What are your fantasies, interests and past experiences? What are your limits?
Do your wants and need match mine and how so?
What skills to you have? Why should I be interested in you?
NOT WRITTEN by me. They were written by MsConstance on Likekink.com - free
and easy to join!
Lifekink.com is a sort of cross between a BDSM social site and matching sites
like alt & collar that are filled with fake/flakes.
Though not required, I highly recommend you read them. It's uncanny how Her
thoughts & experiences seem to mirror my own.
I though it pointless to rewrite, what was so eloquently written. You must
join, log in, then cut & paste these links to access them.
How to impress me http://www.lifekink.com/blogs/msconstance/index.php?pst_id=100147
Self reveling http://www.lifekink.com/blogs/msconstance/index.php?pst_id=100049
Could I not be kinky?
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SUB LOOKING FOR A MALE MASTER AND WANT TO BE
CONSIDERED FOR THIS POSITION PLEASE WRITE ME , GODDESS
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